Monday, November 29, 2010

Good hair

Good HairWell I have showed you really bad hair. now i will show you real good weaves and extentions as well as lace wigs.

When hair goes wrong

Hair to women is what air is to every living being. we cant survive without our hair. all black women around the world thank the maker of weaves, without a good weave we wouldnt look the way we do, and also thanks to Lacefronts, when done properly, we look awesome but when badly done, now thats a whole sad story. below see pictures of bad hair on celebrities;

Friday, November 26, 2010

N.E.R.D Appreciation 2

the sleeve to this #NOTHING masterpiece by N.E.R.D

N.E.R.D Appreciation

showing my appreciation for N.E.R.D i love these guys. # In search of #Fly or Die #Seeing Sounds and #Nothing  are all dope albums!

Thursday, November 25, 2010

Interracial Dating

Why do people make funny comments when they see a black women with a white man, or vice versa? is there anything wrong with a black woman dating a white man? Should oen be forced to date a black man because of fear of castigation? The weird part about it all is that black people are the ones that are more judgemental. In most cases they put labels on black woman  who date white man. I have actually seen that black people are more racist than white people, when it comes to interracial dating.

I personally do not have a problem with interracial dating as long as someone is happy. I am black and have dated white men and i always got these weird and funny looks and snare every time we went out and these mainly came from other black women. Why are women so spiteful, is it because they are jealous of their 'sister" or is it they are really disgusted? Or is it that deep-down these women would wish to date white men too, but maybe none has ever approached them? I wonder.

Should ones relationship options be limited to their race? or should one cross all barriers to find what makes them happy. Over the years most black women have crossed the race barrier and have been dating other race men, and most will say its bacause they got tired of black-man drama, i.e. dealing with baby mamas, their gangsta ish, failure to fully commit and be faithful and so forth. Black men on the other hand have been dating away from their race,running away from black-women drama also, and apparently some have said white women are docile compared to black women???

But really at the end of it all, shouldn't one's choice of a dating partner be based on compatibility and emotions not on their race, or your past experiences with other people of that race.

Monday, November 22, 2010

Seeing Right Through me?

I was listening to Nicki Minaj's "Right Through Me" the other day. The song just took me back to the day of innocence were people used to be loyal in relationships. Where women were honest with their men. Back then, mean would depend on their women to tell them the truth,A guy would look at his women and could be able to tell whether she was telling the truth or was lying. How i long for those days.

Its weird how nowadays couples cant even trust each other, and theres so much infidelity and divorce rates are increasing dailiy.How can you really trust soemone and believe that they wont cheat on you? Its harder with how diverse the family structures have become and how women scream 'independence",'equal rights" at everything. How can one safely say they can see right through their partners lies and deceit? Is it possible that this kind of love still exsists? Somewhere out there are there couples that are confident that they really know their partner or their spouse?

As a woman i long for a man whom i truly trust and have confidence in, and vice versa, i would also want my partner to have faith in me. which leads me to this question, "How do you earn someones trust?". I guess trust is earned over time. And by the same measure you give, so shall you receive in return. Honesty will inturn mean you will reap honesty.

Wednesday, November 17, 2010

Wife is TV, Girlfriend is a Mobile

Wife is like a TV VS Girlfriend is like a MOBILE

At home u watch TV, but when u go out u take ur MOBILE

No money, u sell the TV, got money u change ur MOBILE

Sometimes u enjoy TV, but most of the time u play with ur MOBILE

TV is free for life, but for the MOBILE, if you don't pay, the services will be terminated

TV is big, bulky and most of the time old!
But the MOBILE is cute, slim, curvy and very portable

Operational costs for TV is often acceptable, but for the MOBILE it is often high and demanding

TV has a remote, MOBILE doesn't

Most importantly, MOBILE is a two-way communication (u talk and listen),but with the TV you MUST only listen (whether you want to or not)

Last but not least! TVs don't have viruses, but Mobiles often do

Saturday, November 13, 2010

How to Succeed......

I loved that old song that went, " do you know where you're to, do you like the things that life is showing you, what are you hoping for?" The lyrics spoke to me as a young girl. I had dreams and i had a vivid picture of where i wanted to be. i had dreams of making it big and being succesful. Decades later i find myself revisiting my past and trying to figure out who i really am, and where i am going to.

As i grew older i realised to be succesful, one has to first of all know where there are going to, you have to have a life plan or map. plot your road and follow that road until you reach your goal. Always make provisions for deteurs along the way but make sure to follow the path. We all hope to make it to the end of the road, and eventually become whom we dreamt of becoming.

The road to success involves hard work. Sometimes you find yourself working late, not going out on a saturday night with your friends to do some work.You invest more than 100% of yourself and you will get to a point where you feel like giving up when the results take long to come by but most often when you're about to give up, it means you are almost at the finish line.

People talk about luck and fate , but i dont believe in this, i believe in hard work and reapplying yourself and exerting as much effort as you can. Also never be afraid to ask for help from your friends or family. Keep dreaming big beacuse Without a vision you perish. A vision leads to dreams, which in turn leads to goals.

Your success will be measured by your progress against your set goals, or by how far you have gone down the road path you made. It will not be measured by material things or by others. you alone shall determine whether you are a success or not.So go ahead and be all that you can be, dare to dream and keep on pressing until you reach your mark.

:-) peace and Love

Friday, November 12, 2010

Playing Hard to get

Playing hard to get
Women play hard to get all the time, we all know that, but the question is, How hard is hard enough. Do women take it so far sometimes that men eventually lose interest in them? A male friend said something interesting today, he said if a girl takes it too far (the playing hard to get) he quickly loses interest but he will still persue her, but only to ’screw’ her and dumb her! Mmmmm huh?

Whats with all these games that people play in the dating game? Women my advise “Dont play hard to get, but Be hard to get” and men if you really into her you will continus persuing her.

Is he/ She into me or just being a friend?

How do you know if a guy is really into you? This has always puzzled me, i cant figure men out. They do send out mixed signals at times. If hes calling you constantly, but has never asked you out on a date, is he into you but shy? or maybe he is just being a friend? The same is also true for women, sometimes you are just being nice to a guy and he gets the wrong idea. They probably assume you are flirting with them when you are just being polite.

So it got me wondering, why cant someone just write a rule book on these things. I just want to know if this guy is being my friend or is just leading me on. I bet a lot of women have felt the pressure of trying to figure out where they stand with a particular guy. Other than a rule book the best way to know is if you ask, if he/she intends to take the friendship any further. There is really no harm in asking and knowing where you stand with someone, instead of having them string you along under false assumptions.

Thursday, November 11, 2010

Ladies:When to have Sex in a relationship

Lately it seems most women are rushing into physical relationships with men they hardly know.Whats the rush? its not like he's going anywhere...oh unless if he does leave, then i guess he wasnt the ONE to begin with.The first date is an icebreaker, never kiss on the first date, i mean do you even have any idea where his lips have been? so why would you want that toungue in your mouth? Ladies jjst take your time to get to know him first as a person, before you let any of your biological parts meet. Once you give him the prize (you cherry) why is he going to hang around? If he is a good man, trust me ladies he will wait. It is wise to only consumate your relationship when you know he's for keeps.

Nowadays women dont have respect for their bodies, its sacred, so why go around sharing it with any Tom,Dick and Jerry, just beacause he bought you dinner? which you can afford to buy yourself anyway. If you love yourself, you will love your body and respect it enough not to just have it used, abused and overused by any random man. Take your time to meet the right man, who will respect you, Love you and then you can give all of you, including your body....

#Thatsall :-))