Friday, December 24, 2010

Winky D- Ms Tourism Harare Night Out

Me and Kaira at the Ms Tourism
I first heard of this Winky D character 4 months ago,when i visited Zimbabwe for the first time after being away for almost 2 years.

Tryna strike a pose before the show

I heard one of his tracks " Musarova Bigman" on the radio and it became apparent that this single was clearly "Song of the year". Believe me when i say,I not a Dancehall or Ragga fan but slowly I have become to enjoy this guys antics. His lyrics are well coordinated and make a lot of sense, unlike most Zim artists and he also includes gimmicks in his lyrics which makes his lyricss very funny. The one thing that makes him popular with people, is he is a straight talker, you know , the person who says what you have been thinking, but never get a chance to say it. He has been dubbed "The prophet" or 'Mutumwa" by many because of this.

I had the pleasure of watching him live in concert at the 'Miss Tourism Harare" finals at 7 Arts theatre a couple of weeksa go and waht i witnessed was beyond measure. I mean how can you judge how good an artist someone is, without looking at his following? Impossible right?. I say following, because, i experienced first hand how crazy people go when they see him. While the audience was being addressed by some Government dignotary, Winky D walked in flagged by two if not three big muscular guards, whn the crowd saw him, they started yelling, "big man" "ma Niiinja"- both names have become synonymus with the musician. The Government man got so irritated that he failed to even conatin his anger at how such a dread locked musician could eb more liked and popular thatn him.
Winky D on stage

Miss Kaira during the show checking her deuces

Winky D was the last perfomer at the show and i tell you, the whole crowd was constantly yelling for him,each time the presenter Tinashe something came on.

Finally the Winky took to the stage, I was suprised bacause i had never seen him, he is skinny, hes of small stature but wow the voice that comes out of that man!

 I was blown away. As soon as he was on stage, he mesmerises you, he takes control of the stage, he is captivating. You cant take your eyes off him! I only knew one song by him, but that didnt matter because all his songs are interestingly funny.He is the kind of artist that owns the stage and will keep you entertained during the whole perfomance. At the end of the night i realised what the fuss about this "Big Man" was about. I reembered reading an article a few months back that said Winky D had stolen the show from Sean Paul and Akon when he had shared the stage with them back in August.

For now i can safely say, Winky D is one of the best acts to emerge out of Zimbabwe in the psst decade and his song "Musarova Big Man" is the song of the year 2010. An dto quote the man himself, Winky said on that night, " Musarova Big Man is the biggest song of 2010, who no like it, run go hell"

Signing out for now Peace and Love :-)

Thursday, December 23, 2010

My Workmates and I

Gerry acting like Rick Ross flanked by 2 beauties LOL

Munro wanst trying to have fun, so we brought the fun to him

pepe and Gerry

Rue, me and Ade

yes we were trying to enjoy but well it wasnt easy

Our own Ciara, yeah she ws dancing getting down

No way where we leaving our office mascot out of the pix. (the black teddy) scary huh?

why Munro tryna work when we all enjoying!

Gerry trying to be Rick ross (the boss) flanked by 2 chicks

Tuesday, December 21, 2010

As Christmas draws near, I would like to take this opportunity to wish you all a Blessed Christmas and a Happy and Prosperous 2011.
Remember Christmas is a time of sharing and giving, donot only give material things, but also give more of yourself, your time and your Love.
Thanks to all that have supported me and to my family and friends, I love you all and Keep Keeping up with mspeelicious in 2011.

peace, love and happiness :-))

Tuesday, December 14, 2010

Single vs Married and Friendships

I went to a Marriage Seminar last night ( yes i am single, but i wanted to know what the other camp is talking about).
It was really enlightening so to speak. At least for about 2 hours i got to see what the enemy is up to, and by enemy i mean the married ones, no Subliminal there).The speaker at the seminar mainly pondered on the importance of a married person to have married friends also and not spend time with single people, as they have different goals and ambitions. ( yeah apparently we singles do not aspire to be anything important, we dream of having sex with a random strangers in the parking lot of a night club!) Whatever crap that was. Anyway it seems most of the women were agreeing to this nonsense, and only a few were murmuring in the background. The talk was going on ok, but it got personal when the speaker referred to us by the B word, when someone asked why single women dress slutty, and are going after their Husbands.

I mean seriously the nerve of these people? So i realised, we belong to two different camps, we are sworn enemies (funny how that sounds like the Iraq war Americans vs the Arabs). We have different goals and ambitions. Yes i said it, Most single people were out last night getting pissy drunk, dancing on tables in bars, mayeb even stripping while the married ones were meeting to discuss how to keep that single girl away from their husband. I wonder where is the husband in this scenario? Guess what half the time he is waiting in line at the "Titties-Lounge" to see some random girl shake it while the wives are busy plotting instead of being at home with their husbands. But by no means is this true for everyone though, people are different.

The married couples get to have couples dinners,couples holidays or have family time, with their husbands and kids, and other married couples. The singles get to go clubbing, party after party. Oh and lets not forget that they get to do that dancing on table tops and have sex with anyone they want to. So a single person shouldn't be friends with someone whose married as they are a bad influence (according to the seminar-man this isn't my opinion). So if your friends takes that leap to the other side, you should then cut all ties with them? If you are in a committed relationship or are married, should you neglect your single friends,? And definitely dont take them on holiday with your family and your other married friends.

I spoke to a few married friends and here's their 2 cents:

SINGLES HAVE MORE FUN: OK, so apparently single people have no inhibitions, they will just let lose and have fun,so having them around will remind you of what you are missing.

MARRIED MEN WONDER: men will never stop looking, so having a single friend around opens the door to 'The world of possibilities"

REFLECTIONS: so having your single friends around will allow you to relive your slutty days (remember college, drunk, threesomes etc)

LOOSE MORALS: It seems most married women think their singkle friends have loose morals, in other words they sleep around ( I am sure before you became Mrs X you used to sleep around too)

So many opinions came up, but at the end of it all,do we agree that singles should be friends with singles only and vice versa? What do you think?

Monday, December 6, 2010

Beauty isnt everything

I guess what they say is true,'Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder' . I have seen the most beautiful women get cheated on by men. For example I am sure no one can forget the Halle Berry- Eric Bennet issue back in the day. Most people, me included were baffled,'How can someone cheat on Halle Berry?" she was and probably still is one of the hottest women ever! ( i still have visions of her in Swordfish).

SO BEAUTY WONT KEEP A MAN? We need to give men credit really, we always thought they were shallow. (seriously we did), because we thought the pretty girls can have any man they want. NOT SO apparently. leads me to another example. Eva Longoria and Tony Parker. Most men i know (my boyfriend included) have at some point fantasised about being with "Gabby'. So what in GOD"S name led Mr ball player to cheat?.

TV vs REALITY- We all most likely fall in to the trap of thinking what we see on TV is real, the 'Gabby' on desperate housewives, is obviously not 'Eva'. We are all delusional when we see these characters on TV and naturally assume these women are like the characters they play. This also applies to us commoners. Who we portray to the outside world may not be who we are at home. Some men are saints to the public, but at home are monsters to their partners.

MEN ARE JUST DOGS- I know some women will beg to differ and say, men will be men, meaning they will cheat either way. I don't know if this is fair because, there are some really good men out there. Research shows that more than 50% of women have cheated on their spouses at one point. So its unfair to brand all men dogs, since more an more women are cheating also.

But still if its in men's nature to cheat, why is it some of them will cheat on our Halle-Type with an "Ugly-Duckling". is it about the sex?

Still some women argue that even if you give a man all that he wants (sexually thus) he will still cheat. Are we saying Ugly women over compensate for their unfair looks being more loving, caring and adventurous in bed? I think so, I have seen how vain a beautiful woman can be. Most beautiful chicks are Bitches, they will behave how ever they want and in most cases get away with it. They don't care much about trying to keep a man, besides i am sure a pretty girl came up with the saying, "MEN ARE LIKE BUSES,IF YOU MISS ONE YOU WILL GET ANOTHER".

A man may be attracted to beauty but that surely wont keep him, he will want a woman that is grounded, down to earth, humble, and is willing to treat him like king. I guess that's why most single women are beautiful, Intelligent and Independent, because they are not willing to conform to a mans standards.So beauty is important if its also within right? I mean i guess it has to, because if there is no hope for beautiful woman like, Lauren London who Lil Wayne cheated on with Nivea (who is more on the ugly side)then what of the rest of us?
Maybe that's a bad example because Lil Wayne is just Weezy! ( hes a serial cheater/fucker/what ever you want to call him) - after singing his song, where he says he wants to F?ck every model,actress etc in the world i guess the guy is on a mission.

THE BEHOLDER- in this case who is the beholder? the men you are with. I f he doesn't see you as beautiful, then in his eyes you are not beautiful. The value of ones beauty should be seen by the ones shes with not the outside world.

N.B that's not saying some ugly as fuck chicks are also bitches (O_o)